When someone makes you feel low, you can forgive once.. Maybe thats HUMANITY..
What if, the same person makes you feel soo low, in a way that no one has made you feel the same in your 22 years of life..
Practically, it's GAME OVER !!!
Showing posts with label people. Show all posts
Showing posts with label people. Show all posts
Tuesday, March 9, 2010
Saturday, September 19, 2009
Are they really 'Emotional Idiots' ?!..
Well, Its a tough topic I am about to write about.. Its sensitive and I wish I am able to express it in the right way.. Moreover, its by fortune that I get to write about this topic on this particular day (Sept 19, due to personal reasons..) I just now happened to see the famous tamil debate show 'Neeya Naana' where the topic was "Is emotional attachment necesary ?!".. But the topic isn't as simple as it sounds, I feel its quite complex something which requires an even more comprehensive discussion...
To begin with, the society has given this particular name 'emotional idiots' for the people who are emotionally attached.. Well, I think not all such people are idiots.. Its just that they are able to feel what the other party isn't able to.. People who tend to be emotionally attached are prone to shed tears if something hurts their emotions (or rather feelings).. This act of shedding tears earns them the name 'idiots'.. But lets try to see that from a different point of view.. You can smile at anyone you wish, irrespective of you like them or not from your heart.. But try shedding few drops of tear voluntarily, its impossible.. I guess, each one of you would accept this point.. As a result the only question that comes to my mind is 'Arent these tears for someone/something who/which had entered the intimate personal circle of the human heart ?!.. Why should they be called as idiots ?!..'
Such so called 'emotional idiots' are being visualised as mere dilemmatic persons, surrounded by an aura of indecisiveness, hopelessness and the most important term used now-a-days 'moving on with life'.. Well the most prominent reason I could ascertain for this misrepresentation of the person is plain anachronism.. The present world even if its beautiful with its nature and lovely people, has gone to this particular stage where materialism has become the order of the day.. There exists no real friendship as compared to the earlier days.. Let me stress on the words 'as compared to the earlier days'.. Thats my point of view, except for the blood relationship, the other present day relationships are kinda materialistic in one way or the other..
Some people belong to the latter category and there are another set of people belonging to the 'emotional idiot' category.. And the simultaneous presence of people from both the categories in the communtiy is the major reason which I could ascribe to, for such an issue which comes up to the level of tv debate shows.. The real solution is no one could be blamed actually.. Each has its own pros and cons.. Being emotional could help you understanding the true pleasure of feelings and love but at the same time it puts you at the risk of being hurt very easily. Being isolated from such emotional feelings may make you strong enough to face any crisis, be independent but it makes it difficult to place yourself in the other person's shoes or makes you a little materialistic..
Well, to be frank I was emotional earlier.. Words and actions offended me, though I could not actually blame the opposite side.. To them it might have been correct, but I have the right to blame only myself. I should have taken the effort to prevent myself from being offended.. Infact, I had cried for someone who had left me.. But I feel that doesn't make me an emotional idiot.. On the loss of something which was precious/importance to you, if you are an human, tears are natural.. The so called 'idiocy' depends on the individual and his/her nature..
On an ending note, I feel that being emotional is good (not an idiocy absolutely), but to survive in this materialistic world where the mantra is 'survival of the fittest', you need to detach yourself emotionally from any person/object.. Learn to live independent.. As far as I am concerned or from what I have learned, there are only an elite circle of people with whom you could be emotional with. The elite circle would obviously be parents, spouse and children... Hope I dint bore you all reading this long post !!!.. Ciao !!! :)
Saturday, August 29, 2009
F.R.I.E.N.D.S
Let me just pen down my thoughts about the magical word "friends" based out of my own experiences.. Where do I start with, well I have come across lot of people.. People from different geographic locations across India,from different backgrounds and different attitude.. Though I have come across such a large group and maintain a fairly decent and good relationship with almost 98% of them, I do posses only a very few elite group of close ones whom I share my real thoughts with... The main reason can be attributed to my reserved nature ( maybe because I am the only kid for my parents and I have spent much time alone, so I have kinda preferred loneliness many a time)...
Before you go ahead with this post, I would like to say that the post you are about to read is purely out of my own experiences... I do respect friendship and also love it..It should also to be noted that there are always a bunch of bad amongst every good... There is a famous saying which goes like " A man can be judged by the company he keeps".. So, as I have heard frequently, I have to accept that friends are ofcourse a beautiful part of life.. They change our lives, they have been with us in times of need and have sometimes helped us achieved our dreams, motives...
Out of all the friends we get all through our life, I feel the ones you get in school are always special.. They be with you just for the person who you are.. I say so because, when we were kids, the friends we get, be with us for just the person whom we are.. Such friendship doesnt see your social status, they still exist no matter what you become in the future, they pull your legs but make sure they be with you when you really fall..
Now, from this part of the post (or atleast for this part of the post) is where my total idea is gonna change.. The days of my college life.. It was indeed some bad experience for me(not totally though).. Unluckily, the first person whom I met in college and the one whom I trusted like anything ended up to be the traitor after a whole long four years.. In those span of four years, I have pretty much been as good I could be, let him pull my leg ( thinking that he ll be there with me when I fall down really, infact he had been during the intial period) only to find that he would be ready to dump me just because he thought being a friend of mine would spoil his so called "reputation" with the other group of his to whom "fun" meant a lot more than "true feelings"... Yet again I met another person who would totally portray the line from the tamil song which goes "pachai kulandhai endru paalu oothi vazhthaen, pala kudichitu paambattam kuthudhadhi"... Then there was this person who behaves according to the situation.. Infact there are a lot many people belonging to the latter category who spend most of the time talking bad abt X to Y and vice-versa... I wonder why they dont get the courage to say their original opinion rather wear a "facial mask" to gain the masses...
Thankfully, I had also got real friends during this period who really had been with me during the end of college life taking me out and far away from the blue.. I had given lesser importance to them during the course of the period, yet they stood by me when I needed someone to get up.. Tonnes of thanks to them and their benevolence will be remembered always !!!!... The entire clan of friends I have obtained so far have taught me a lot of things.. These experiences have defintiely moulded me better, taught me on reading people more, how good they can be, how bad they can be,how people change through time etc... I am thankful for meeting the bad ones as well as the wonderful ones... Wonderful ones have kept me happy always but the bad ones have taught me more than what the wonderful ones have taught..
P.S :- I have been getting back in touch with a lot of school friends in the past few weeks which made me feel that I should write a post on "FRIENDS"... As I am pretty open-minded, I dint feel like I should hide my bad experiences in this post.. Kudos to all the best friends out there in the world !!!... My salutes to you !!!...
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
A fitting tribute to all my classmates....
Its April 22nd already, my final day in college would be on May 2nd.. Its going to come down in a jiffy and I am going to become a graduate... These four years of life thought me many lessons.. I met people from different backgrounds, different views, different attitude, different tastes, different thinking and different ambitions...
I never felt this way when I left school, Infact I never felt that the school days were over.. My mom used to ask me in awe how I could be like that without a little feeling.. I used to say ' What's there in it ?!..' But now I feel that the college life has come to an end.. I am not sure of the exact reason w
hich makes me miss these days... Some things in life just happen, you can't reason everything...
hich makes me miss these days... Some things in life just happen, you can't reason everything...I would like to mention the names of all those close buddies here.. Vineeth, Ramachandran, Saravannan, Sabari, Vignesh, Divya, Geetha, Muthu, Ashwin, Raghu, Sundar, Sudhakar, Srini and the list just goes on.... A heartfelt thanks to everyone!!!
I would miss all those beautiful evenings I spent with Vignesh (fondly called as Dizz) and Ramachandran ( fondly called as Rama, though I call by different name everytime) in the labs.. Those countless hours of simulations running without a break, those arguments while debugging results, those wierd but striking questions from our Dizz, the way Rama tries to type without seeing the keyboard and of-course would miss those super-computers (well that's supposed to be taken in the other way ;) )... I still remember our stay in IIT hostel during a competition, which was absolute fun.. I can still remember me and Dizz going to NIT, Trichy for a paper presentation and coming back on the same day.. It was kinda short fun trip...
I would miss those spent with Saravanna, Rama, Sabari, Muthu and other people during those lunch hours.. Myself and Saravanna were like Tom and Jerry, fighting for no reason and teasing each other... Sabari - the only person whom I have teased a lot in class, his slang of speaking, his way of walking, his way of getting tensed were all absolute fun for us... All our combined studies (guess we studied ;) , most of the time we would be discussing about the bhel poori to be eaten at 4'o clock ) during internals... Miss those big time !!!...
Now coming to the two programming geeks of the class -- Raghu and Sundar...My thanks to Raghu for teaching me C and other programming stuff during exams and placement.. My thanks to Sundar ( fondly called as Family Man) for helping me on Probability.. If not for these two people, it wouldn't have been possible for me to get such grades !!!.. I am sure these two would hit the headlines in the days to come !!!....
Geethanjali.. She would promptly let me know the portions before the day of exam.. One of my good friends in college from first year..
Divya.. I came to know about her in third year.. Became a close friend soon.. She made my life great in many many small ways.. Thanks a million for that... Hope things get well soon !!.. Miss those days very badly...
Last, but not to be forgotten to mention.. Vineeth.. Knew him from day one in college... Myself and him were the student represenatives of the class for the first semester.. He was there for me on all occasions.. When I met with an accident, When I admitted some unknown person in hospital... The only person who knows what I am going to do next... The only person whom I shared all my views ( be it serious, or be it silly) .... He was someone whom I can trust all my secrets and feelings with... I have always envied him ( especially for a certain forte of his ;) ).. He has adviced me a lot, beared with me a lot, helped me a lot... Even now, I trust him soo badly ( hope he doesn't let me down anytime :) , just kidding )... Thanks a million for all that you have been and for all that have done... Will miss these days forever.....
It's absolutely true that 'Events which made us laugh earlier, would bring tears. later.. and events which made us cry, would bring laughters later' ..... My eyes get watery, when I write this sentence.. A real salute and tribute to this beautiful part of my life which really made me the person that I was...
Really looking forward for that day, where I would be seeing these people who touched my heart being loaded with different roles and responsibilities but with the same sense of friendship between us.... Thanks a Lot, Miss U people....
I would miss all those beautiful evenings I spent with Vignesh (fondly called as Dizz) and Ramachandran ( fondly called as Rama, though I call by different name everytime) in the labs.. Those countless hours of simulations running without a break, those arguments while debugging results, those wierd but striking questions from our Dizz, the way Rama tries to type without seeing the keyboard and of-course would miss those super-computers (well that's supposed to be taken in the other way ;) )... I still remember our stay in IIT hostel during a competition, which was absolute fun.. I can still remember me and Dizz going to NIT, Trichy for a paper presentation and coming back on the same day.. It was kinda short fun trip...
I would miss those spent with Saravanna, Rama, Sabari, Muthu and other people during those lunch hours.. Myself and Saravanna were like Tom and Jerry, fighting for no reason and teasing each other... Sabari - the only person whom I have teased a lot in class, his slang of speaking, his way of walking, his way of getting tensed were all absolute fun for us... All our combined studies (guess we studied ;) , most of the time we would be discussing about the bhel poori to be eaten at 4'o clock ) during internals... Miss those big time !!!...
Now coming to the two programming geeks of the class -- Raghu and Sundar...My thanks to Raghu for teaching me C and other programming stuff during exams and placement.. My thanks to Sundar ( fondly called as Family Man) for helping me on Probability.. If not for these two people, it wouldn't have been possible for me to get such grades !!!.. I am sure these two would hit the headlines in the days to come !!!....
Geethanjali.. She would promptly let me know the portions before the day of exam.. One of my good friends in college from first year..
Divya.. I came to know about her in third year.. Became a close friend soon.. She made my life great in many many small ways.. Thanks a million for that... Hope things get well soon !!.. Miss those days very badly...
Last, but not to be forgotten to mention.. Vineeth.. Knew him from day one in college... Myself and him were the student represenatives of the class for the first semester.. He was there for me on all occasions.. When I met with an accident, When I admitted some unknown person in hospital... The only person who knows what I am going to do next... The only person whom I shared all my views ( be it serious, or be it silly) .... He was someone whom I can trust all my secrets and feelings with... I have always envied him ( especially for a certain forte of his ;) ).. He has adviced me a lot, beared with me a lot, helped me a lot... Even now, I trust him soo badly ( hope he doesn't let me down anytime :) , just kidding )... Thanks a million for all that you have been and for all that have done... Will miss these days forever.....
It's absolutely true that 'Events which made us laugh earlier, would bring tears. later.. and events which made us cry, would bring laughters later' ..... My eyes get watery, when I write this sentence.. A real salute and tribute to this beautiful part of my life which really made me the person that I was...
Really looking forward for that day, where I would be seeing these people who touched my heart being loaded with different roles and responsibilities but with the same sense of friendship between us.... Thanks a Lot, Miss U people....
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Wonderful Memories ....
It was just another ordinary day today till sometime back.. But all of a sudden I fell into the memories of my dear friend !!!.. The happy days we spent together teasing each other, supporting each other.... Inspite of this, I feel sad just because I am just left with these memories to cherish for the coming days.. These memories now bring me little tears which slowly trickle down my cheeks.. I am tired of changing my mood whenever I get these memories.. After all, were these memo
ries written with pencils to just rub them off ?!?!...
Something within me says that those happy days will be coming soon.. I hope it comes soon.. Its just like walking in a long tunnel hoping that one day i would reach the end of the tunnel seeing a ray of sunlight and my dear friend standing in front of it.. That day when I see the ray of light, I would have a smile like that of a new born baby...
This is when I personally realize that when you wanna forget certain things, you can never actually do it.. When you tell your mind to forget certain things, it infact stores it in your sub-conscious mind that reminds you pretty often.. But I feel I don't wanna lose these memories as these are the only souvenirs I have rite now... Let me continue my journey through the tunnel hoping I would reach the end of the tunnel soon..........
ries written with pencils to just rub them off ?!?!...Something within me says that those happy days will be coming soon.. I hope it comes soon.. Its just like walking in a long tunnel hoping that one day i would reach the end of the tunnel seeing a ray of sunlight and my dear friend standing in front of it.. That day when I see the ray of light, I would have a smile like that of a new born baby...
This is when I personally realize that when you wanna forget certain things, you can never actually do it.. When you tell your mind to forget certain things, it infact stores it in your sub-conscious mind that reminds you pretty often.. But I feel I don't wanna lose these memories as these are the only souvenirs I have rite now... Let me continue my journey through the tunnel hoping I would reach the end of the tunnel soon..........
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